WE HAVE A NANNY!!!!!
As you can imagine I am relieved, we signed the work agreement with the nanny last night. Her name is Jackie (as stated previously) and she is very sweet. She starts Monday.
She is real quiet and that is one thing we were worried about with her originally but she has a lot of experience so I am sure she will be fine. She seems real excited too. She is 24 years old and is getting married next month. She will be taking off a week for her honeymoon so that is when I am going to Oregon.
She seems pretty strict about her religion. She is Apostolic, haven't heard of it, neither have I. It is like Pentecostal, she said, but more for the Spanish. I don't mean to sound like she is overbearing, because she never brought it up, but after she showed up four times with a skirt on, we started asking questions. She, as you can see wears only skirts and her hair is REALLY long. She wore it up last night, usually it has been down. She doesn't drink, smoke, go to movies or even dance. The not dancing freaks me out a little, because I love music and to dance and I think that is important, but maybe I am just being too paranoid or picky or something. She is nearly perfect and I guess I am just getting nervous because of the huge change and commitment this is.
The boys' last day at daycare is tomorrow and I know I am going to be emotional. They love it there and Kristen (the helper and our babysitter) loves them so much and Ean loves her a lot. I totally trust and am comfortable with them and if it weren't for the logistics they would be staying there. I keep telling myself that I am doing this for the wrong reasons (money and time) but then have to catch myself and remember how many working parents would love to be able to hire a nanny. I know this is better for them, but I feel horrible.
I am making cupcakes for tomorrow and Kristen is going to babysit on Saturday night. It is going to be unbelievable on Monday to leave home and be to work in literally 3 minutes, instead of an hour. The boys are going to have one person devoting all of her time and energy to them instead of 8-14 other kids and will be able to go on outings and to the park etc. Also, once they get in a routine I am going to put Ean in a couple of extra things that him and I can do together, probably gymnastics and dance. Like I said I KNOW this is the right decision, just right now the unknown future and change is horrible.
I am excited, can you tell?
Also, Ean got into his first MOTORCYCLE ACCIDENT this week. See the below picture. He, after being told not to, decide to climb onto Daddy's HOT bike. Jim had just rode it home from work. Thank God it was not hotter from a long ride AND it was just his hand because it could have been a lot worse. Ean cried for over and hour, and ended up sleeping with us half the night. It is healing up fine and by the morning it looked a lot worse than it felt.
The boys' last day at daycare is tomorrow and I know I am going to be emotional. They love it there and Kristen (the helper and our babysitter) loves them so much and Ean loves her a lot. I totally trust and am comfortable with them and if it weren't for the logistics they would be staying there. I keep telling myself that I am doing this for the wrong reasons (money and time) but then have to catch myself and remember how many working parents would love to be able to hire a nanny. I know this is better for them, but I feel horrible.
I am making cupcakes for tomorrow and Kristen is going to babysit on Saturday night. It is going to be unbelievable on Monday to leave home and be to work in literally 3 minutes, instead of an hour. The boys are going to have one person devoting all of her time and energy to them instead of 8-14 other kids and will be able to go on outings and to the park etc. Also, once they get in a routine I am going to put Ean in a couple of extra things that him and I can do together, probably gymnastics and dance. Like I said I KNOW this is the right decision, just right now the unknown future and change is horrible.
I am excited, can you tell?
Also, Ean got into his first MOTORCYCLE ACCIDENT this week. See the below picture. He, after being told not to, decide to climb onto Daddy's HOT bike. Jim had just rode it home from work. Thank God it was not hotter from a long ride AND it was just his hand because it could have been a lot worse. Ean cried for over and hour, and ended up sleeping with us half the night. It is healing up fine and by the morning it looked a lot worse than it felt.
BTW- Don't talk crap about my Mexican Nanny! --- Joke, just kidding, hahaha, put down the stakes and daggers.
5 comments:
Congrats on your nanny! Does she know that the whole internet knows who she is now?
Hope Ean's hand is all better soon. Give him and Ben and Hug for us!
This is just random, but can she (Jackie) dance at her wedding?
http://www.apostolicchristian.org/faith_lifestyle.php
Well, it is day two of the nanny. So, tell us how is it working out. It must be nice to recapture the 2 plus hours that you were spending driving across town, besides the gas. WOW! You will feel rich and have time for a little self indulgence besides! A nice pedicure or facial....
Hope things are working for you all.
She looks very sweet...and I am really happy that you and Jim can spend your morning time with the boys having breakfast and giving them attention instead of the 'frenzy' of trying to get them and you ready for work, pack the bags...
...make sure you have everything, load them in two car seats, drive through morning traffic, drop them off and then go to work...only to repeat the same thing in reverse at night.
Only being five minutes from home, you could stop by and see how they are doing on your way to an errand or meeting etc. Maybe even go home for lunch instead of eating out all the time.
The combo Nanny and Home Assistant will also allow your weekends to be more relaxed as well because laundry will be done and folded and put away, dishes done, and messes cleaned up.
Getting back two hours of your own time a day will also reduce stress on everyone, including Ben and Ean.
The 'Nanny' looks quiet and calm, and that will be a good thing for your family I think...since you and Jim are both extremely busy...and when rushed and stressed...the kids 'feel it' and react to it.
Besides, Latinas are raised from birth to love children and are very family oriented...it is a part of our own hispanic culture that I most admire.
I think this is a great move for you and I too am as eager as Margie to hear an update.
Love to the babies...and you too of course!
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